I connect with this message. And anyone who really knows me would agree that this is my stance. I cannot and will not waste my time marinating in hateful thoughts over someone who I feel has wronged in some way. I won’t become a shrivelled old bitter hag, alone except for a list of people that I hate.
I will either forgive you or I will forget you (and I’ll probably just forgive you). But rest assure I won’t spend any more time thinking about it. I want to spend my time, however long or short it may be, happy and surrounded by people I love ( sometimes even regardless of if that love is equally returned.)